“After many attempts at couples work with other individuals, working with Paul has finally helped my partner and I breakthrough to a new place of understanding and appreciation for one another."

Jessie, Essex Junction VT

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"We were an hour and a half into our drive home when I

realized we were talking about our toughest issues with

calm compassion and understanding instead of upset and hurt. Thank you so much for such an amazing gift.”

S.J. Estes Park, Colorado

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"You believed in US, you gave us incredible tools and I truly believe
that we are happily married today because of your support.”

M & I San Diego, CA
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“Working with Paul was wonderful. We were a bit nervous talking to
someone about our personal life. Paul put us at ease very quickly.

His technique is relaxing and feels safe. We liked the Relationship
Breakthrough Session so much we decided to continue working with Paul."

D.B. Kapaa HI

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“We are so grateful to Paul for working his magic on us!  We have been married for 25 years and still could not figure out how to communicate effectively to each other without blowing things all out of proportion and feelings getting hurt.

    Paul gave us some simple tools to use the very first session and we noticed a difference right away.  Each week we learned more tools and Paul helped us to strengthen the ones he taught us in the beginning.  We really appreciate the convenience of using Zoom for our sessions.   

Our relationship had never been better, our only regret is

we did not find him 25 years ago.”

R & S Phoenix AZ 

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“I came to Paul as a last ditch effort to save my relationship.  I had tried everything I could think of to get my relationship "unstuck" over many years and nothing worked.  

With 20-years of marriage, my wife and I had advanced skills in making the other feel like the source of the problems and had acquired advanced attack/defense routines that would play-out over-and-over without resolution.   

I truly appreciate Paul's ability to get right to the heart of the issues that my wife and I had been experiencing for many years.  Having tried marriage counseling (unsuccessfully) earlier in our relationship, we were both a bit skeptical about trying a coach.  

We figured if a psychologist couldn't help, then how could a relationship coach be of benefit.  All I can say is, that I'm glad we took the chance with Paul - it's making a huge difference for us.  

As a couple, we interact differently and have largely ridded ourselves of the detrimental communication patterns we had

fallen into and couldn't get out of by ourselves.  

We are happier and more open with one another now and enjoy the new space that has opened up for us.  

M. C. San Diego, CA

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“Our Relationship Breakthrough Session was a surprisingly in-depth
look at exactly what dynamics are at work in our relationship.

Paul listened keenly, asked profound questions that required

honest self-reflection, and very quickly saw right into the

heart of the repetitive theme that we were stuck in. He

offered clear, simple tools for turning hurtful, dead-end communication into connective possibility."

J.C., Burlington VT